I have in the past not looked to my wife for her input on much of anything. If I wanted something I bought it, if I wanted the kids to have something I picked it up without asking her wht she thought. I see now that I was very selfish in all my actions. this is something I see plain as day now but back then I was just worring about what i wanted.
My wife is not around to try this on or hardly any more of the Dares. But I will push on and give this all to God to work on. I lay it all at his feet now.