Day 3

Forum Post: Re: Day 3 - Love is not Selfish

Sean — Fri, 24 May 2013 10:19:00 GMT

The success of the dares are not the results. The success is trusting Christ in you doing the dares without manipulating them on what you think the outcome or response will be

Forum Post: Re: day 3

Sean — Mon, 01 Apr 2013 08:34:00 GMT

Carla, we also have a section called journals. There is much more interaction there if you'd like.

Forum Post: Re: Day 3- Love is not selfish

Sean — Fri, 29 Mar 2013 22:34:00 GMT

Also seek oneness, unconditional love and seek out your own selfishness. These things will open your eyes to many things in the journey

Forum Post: Re: Day 3 - Buy an I'm Thinking Of You

Sean — Mon, 17 Dec 2012 11:13:00 GMT

If you are doing the dare, it is a journey. By choosing to neglect a dare you are taking back control. You need to trust Christ completely, and pray upon each dare for His guidance.

Forum Post: Re: Day 3 and she is trying as hard as she can to "Hurt me"

Sean — Sun, 09 Dec 2012 13:10:00 GMT

My question is this. Do yu have the book? If you do read in the appendix about leading the heart. Then check out the prayer guidance. If you don't have the book, get it.

This journey (the dare) is one between you and Christ, not you and your husband. Your husband is a tool that is used in the dares so that you can depend only on Christ and do the dares as they are intended trusting Christ in each one to do them without any manipulation on your part.

You see many things in this relationship and you are trying to control it as much as he is. You need to leave those things to Christ and focus on your relationship with Christ. Through your testimony as you grow in Christ is what will reflect conviction on him.

Forum Post: Re: no show

Sean — Fri, 30 Nov 2012 12:04:00 GMT

It is never to late. The things you will learn in this journey are the purpose.

Forum Post: Re: Got him beer!

Sean — Wed, 14 Nov 2012 11:45:00 GMT

Juniper, this is not about religion. And it is not about beer. It is about the dares. Out of all the things that are going wrong in someone's marriage the only thing that can come to complete the dare is a beer? That is not what this is about.

Make sure you read their entire story and entries and all the conversations that have taken place when you comment. Jumping in the middle of not knowing what the past has been will most certainly not give you an understanding of what the comments are about.

Forum Post: Re: Day 3 Forum: Love is Not Selfish

Sean — Thu, 06 Sep 2012 10:23:00 GMT

Just because you are to buy a gift does not mean it needs to cost a lot. I remember my dare, it cost me about 80 cents

Forum Post: Re: Round 2 Day 3 - Love Isn't Selfish

Sean — Thu, 16 Aug 2012 10:32:00 GMT

Other than the dare you should not initiate contact right now. Pray upon the moments you feel the urge.

Forum Post: Re: Day 3: It works

Sean — Thu, 16 Aug 2012 10:31:00 GMT

More will be exposed about you through this journey. Christ is molding you in His image. And it is not that the dare is working, it is that you are seeking Christ and it is He that is filling your voids, I guess you can look at it that it got you on the journey but your growth in Him is your choice...

Forum Post: Re: Nervous about Day 3

Sean — Sat, 04 Aug 2012 18:13:00 GMT

Don't worry about her right now. Worry about your dares and be humble

Forum Post: Re: day three and discouraged......

Sean — Sat, 04 Aug 2012 18:12:00 GMT

Then don't let her know you are doing the dares.

Forum Post: Re: DAY 3...NO RESPONSE FROM WIFE

Sean — Sat, 04 Aug 2012 18:11:00 GMT

You are getting feedback..l through Christ. Don't look for it through her.

Forum Post: Re: Day 42 - Love is Selfish

Sean — Sat, 04 Aug 2012 18:11:00 GMT

Check the journal entry

Forum Post: Re: Day 3, and its getting hard!

Sean — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 10:30:00 GMT

it feels that things have gotten worse because now you are not in control anymore and have realized it.

It will most certainly get worse before it gets better. If things were all good, you would not be on this journey with Christ. would you?

In those moments, your are humbled, you are open to what Christ is molding you to be.

Your blessings will be realized soon enough.

Forum Post: Re: Day 3- Love is not selfish

Sean — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 10:28:00 GMT

Well you are married. You are to be one. In everything. But it sounds like you both separate your finances.

If that is the case, then buy it for her. And let her know that it was your love that ring represents.

And start working to being one in every aspect of life. Including finances.

Forum Post: Re: Day Three- Gift day- this is hard

Sean — Fri, 11 May 2012 09:49:00 GMT

He will wait patiently...

Forum Post: Re: Day 43 - Love is still not Selfish

Sean — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 09:35:00 GMT

But the dares are there for you to initiate. To trust Christ in leading the way.

Forum Post: Re: Love Dare

Sean — Wed, 22 Feb 2012 11:13:00 GMT

You may not be doing anything wrong. This is a journey between you and Christ, not you and your wife. Christ will use your wife through these dares to humble you, to show you things about yourself to mold you etc...

Also, come here each day and let us know more detail about your dares. There is always good response to help you with your dares moving forward.

Have you seen fireproof? If not would recommend.

Forum Post: Re: Day 3 - Love is Not Selfish

Sean — Sat, 18 Feb 2012 10:47:00 GMT

Do your dares... And pray for guidance in the rest. Right now your first concern must be getting right with Christ. That is what this journey is about. Christ wants to be first in your life and it is not an easy thing to do. I know, I have been there.

Trying to control the situation and manipulate for him not to leave is you taking control and not trusting Christ.

And doing things your way has not worked yet has it?