Hello, I just started the dare maybe too late? We are well into the divorce process. My husband and I are living separately, sold our house, and he is waiting for me to sign the final divorce papers. Day 1 keeps me from lashing out and making comments to him about the fact that he's dating others. Day 2 I promoted his blog which I was never really supportive of. Day 3 I bought him a gift card. I didn't think I'd hear from him, but I got angry texts to get out of his life and how he has already told me he doesn't want to be with me. I put a lot of thought into that gift, but maybe it was too much?
Do I keep going with the Dares? Do I tell him this is what I'm doing in hopes of acquiring more participation on feedback from him?
First, do you have the book? If not get it.
Second, the dare is a journey. One between you and Christ. Your husband is just a tool in this journey. Trusting Christ for each dare is essential.
In the appendix of the book is a section on leading the heart. Make sure you read it.
Also, on this site is the journal section, there is much more participation there. You might want to check it out.