I'm on day three and it seems hard but mainly because my wife doesn't feel anything and she is having a hard time with everything she feels nothing and i'm not sure what i am doing wrong any help with this would be greatly appreciated.
You may not be doing anything wrong. This is a journey between you and Christ, not you and your wife. Christ will use your wife through these dares to humble you, to show you things about yourself to mold you etc...
Also, come here each day and let us know more detail about your dares. There is always good response to help you with your dares moving forward.
Have you seen fireproof? If not would recommend.