Will I am a little nervous about the dare today. This morning my wife told me she does not want our marriage to work and that she is angry because she did not get what she wanted, and that was me out of the house. I am planning to give her a caribou coffee card so she can go out by herself for coffee and to allow that space she is looking for. I will write a letter and leave it on her pillow with a note explaining this telling her I care for her and love her.
The more you grow in Christ, the more she will resist. And with most of us, to resist, we must get under the others skin. I will get MUCH worse before it gets better.
But remember the closer you get to Christ the more she will resist. The more you will be molded. Focus on Christ and look for Him to bless you with control. One blow up from you could set you back significantly.
I understand that, and understand that I am being tested during all of this and really working hard to stay undercontrol, not over react, and questioning her.
Remember, you cannot do it on your own. You need to hand it over to Christ. I know it is easier said than done, however when you set your eyes on Him above, He will comfort your heart.