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Re: Investing in her heart, it's what needs to be placed on priority

Investing in her heart, it's what needs to be placed on priority

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  • I know that for quite some time she has been telling me about things that she's wanted. the other day I stumbled across an item that she had mentioned. Today, I will make it a precedent to make sure it is brought to her. Already after having seen Fireproof I saw there were certain things that are required for me to give up later. But if those very items and issues are what are ruining my relationship with God and my wife, why wait until that very day. Tomorrow begins today. I know I have to pace myself, but these "parasites" must be done away with. If I cannot see, I cannot crave. I cannot covet, and I cannot pursue. I must be pure in intentions if I am to bring happiness back into my wretched heart and her hurt heart. I ran across a prayer that I recited last night. It was a world of a blessing, I hope to continue this path. Allowing myself to accept God's forgiveness. 

  • Welcome. Realize this will be  a journey between you and Christ, not you and your wife.  She will be used as a tool to mold you.  do a dare a day, no  more no less. Do the dares as intended without manipulating them to make them easier.  Have no expectations of her when you do the dares.  Do not read ahead in the book, other than the  appendix, especially about leading the heart.

    Try journaling in the Love Dare Journal section, under the  community tab.  More people may respond there.  If you cant find that section, come back here.  

    It's good you see to invest in her heart. But, right now, look more so as investing in doing the dares.  For that is what will bring you to investing in her heart in the purest, most unselfish way.  and doing the dares gives God control vs us trying to control things.

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