Day 26

Forum Post: Re: Day 26- Love is Responsible

Sean — Sat, 09 Feb 2013 13:11:00 GMT

First thing. I do not think you are getting conflicting issues between the dare and your devotions. When your devotion says let go of the past and move on, means those burdens need to be left at Christs feet and you have been forgiven, so there is no reason to dwell on them, and now it is time to move on from them. Not move on from what is currently going on in your life.

Second. Don't say you know you ruined this... It was both of you living in the world and it's ways that got you here. You both were selfish and self centered. Now you are in a journey with Christ and remember there is a reason He chose you for this journey first.

Now you have to stop snooping. All you are doing is creating havoc on yourself. There is nothing you can do about it except create fights and strife. Now that does not mean allow it to happen, you must protect your marriage. But don't go looking. Lave it to Christ to handle your husband.

Praying for your spouses heart is not so much that it is selfish. However right now with all the turmoil, praying for his heart right now is more likely selfish in that case that you are praying he finds Christ and stops what he is doing. You are not praying for his heart to be saved by Christs grace. So right now it is best to pray for Christs will in his life and yours as well.

Forum Post: Re: Day 66 - Love is Responsible

Sean — Tue, 28 Aug 2012 10:19:00 GMT

Making things right with Christ makes a big difference in our concerns. I guess this is where the saying of a weight lifted of our shoulders comes from

Forum Post: Re: Day 26: Love Is Responsible

Sean — Wed, 22 Aug 2012 11:24:00 GMT

Jason is correct. Things will be worse before better. First you should have always been this man, and second she needs to justify in her mind her decision.

Forum Post: Re: Amazing Timing

Sean — Fri, 10 Aug 2012 11:17:00 GMT

Trusting Christ is something that will always get us through, and humble us.

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Sean — Wed, 01 Aug 2012 11:14:00 GMT

Also, Christ will show you things about yoUr relationship with Him through your marriage. Seek out those things, knock for Him to open,...

Forum Post: Re: Day 26 - Love is Responsible

Sean — Mon, 30 Jul 2012 10:11:00 GMT

Just as I said on the last post, she will find the grs is not greener on the other side. Just as long as you let Christ deal with her.

Forum Post: Re: Day 26 -She couldn’t have cared less…

Sean — Thu, 19 Jul 2012 11:20:00 GMT

Praise God. Walking with Him you can never go wrong. Understand He is preparing you each day to be that testimony to her and others.

Forum Post: Re: Day 26 - Love is Responsible

Sean — Thu, 19 Jul 2012 11:19:00 GMT

Becky. I replied to your post in the journal already.

Forum Post: Re: Day 26

Sean — Sun, 10 Jun 2012 13:14:00 GMT

Dan, many important things here.

First. there is nothing wrong with what you did. The Church is there for you, and your wife. This goes to show how removed from Christ she is. To think the things she is thinking and to feel the way she feels. That is 100% the flesh, not Christ. You on the other hand are looking for those that love Christ around you to help. So doing things on your own... Actually she is wrong with that one. It is probably the first time you have without a doubt trusted Christ to guide your actions. Prior to this, it was your way!

On the other hand. When you realized that she was so upset about it, leave it alone. Do it for yourself now. Other than that it is a manipulation. Dont lie to her, but dont offer it.

Now is the time to be a testimony and lead by example and not pointing things out. Leave her to Christ and He will work on her. Doing things your way with her will get you venom!

Forum Post: Re: Day 66 - Love still Takes Responsibility

Sean — Fri, 20 Apr 2012 10:11:00 GMT

Always

Forum Post: Re: Day 26 love is responsible.I s

Sean — Fri, 23 Mar 2012 09:16:00 GMT

It is because you did not manipulate the dare. You took it at face value and trusted Christ.

This is the way each day should be when it comes to trusting Christ. You can NEVER go wrong with this!

Forum Post: Re: Day 26 - Love is Responsible

Natalie — Thu, 22 Mar 2012 05:38:00 GMT

wow Jenn this is powerful... i'm so proud of you though...

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Sean — Sun, 04 Mar 2012 12:54:00 GMT

Dont envy... You are on a journey with Christ. you are learning His ways of loving unconditionally. Think of it like this. The next time you have the opportunity to love, it will be like you never could have dreamed. Not matter if it is your wife or after the divorce someone else.

I know what you are thinking I have been there. But there was a line I hit, and I told my wife who was in an affair at the time. She wanted me to file the divorce, and I told her I could not, even though I would be justified in doing so I wanted to do things right for Christ. I told her, please if she is going to file, do it quickly so we can move on. She asked why. I told her, you have seen everything changing in my life. And you know the reason. I finally know what love is, and I want to share it with someone that can share it with me. Even if it is not you!

My point is this. Know that you dont have to worry about these things any more. Christ is leading the way, and He has such a better plan for our lives if we just stay out of His way!

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HKOakland — Tue, 23 Aug 2011 06:12:00 GMT

I hope and pray this will happen. I want to be that testimony. I know I will need to be that testimony every single day in every action that I take. How incredible is that. WOW