I forgive my wife for everything, I love her... I have agreed to help her move away from me next week. I don't like that we are going to live separated but I feel I should still help her.
I know when my wife was leaving, I would not help her. But at that time it was my belief that I should not help her destroy our marriage. In fact, I told her I cannot be apart of her going against what Christ would want.
I am not saying you are doing anything wrong. And you really need to pray about it. But also at that time, I truly believe my wife just wanted to hurt me. I did not try to stop her, but I did not help.
The funny part was when she wanted to move back, and I almost did not help her with that. But that would not have been Christ like.
I pray for you my friend. But one thing you can remember is that God is never late.