I have chosen to forgive my wife for destroying this family. It really hurt at first but I am starting to heal and accept it. If I could just bring myself to talk off my wedding band would help a bunch. She seems to be over it so some times I sit and wonder why I continue.
Otty, I hope you are doing OK. It seems there is a lot of anger in this post. A lot of blame. Why take off your band?
It would be a good idea to pray about leading your heart back to this.