Ive sacrificed so much in my marriage. I pursued things over my wife. Wanting to make the house and myself look perfect. Wanting our son to have the best opportunity. I put so much before my wife. For the past 3-4 weeks that has changed. However the problem is now she wants to put everything in her life before me. She is only concerrened about her. Even our marriage. She actually said last week at counseling that she feels smothered and this all seems fake. And that its only me being selfish because she wants out and i wont just give up on our marriage.
Don't worry about her. You are in a journey that will change you and if your testimony is there, will change her as well