Today the things i chose to remove were the unrealistic expectations I have on my husband. The ones i got from my family,friends, & movies. I also have given up control, spending money on worthless things, and our belief backgrounds.
I never realized how these things influenced my marriage so negatively.
Looking back i see how they were tearing it down. So were my behaviors.
I let everyone and certain things have a say except my husband. I had selective hearing on the wrong things
I let the world tell me how my husband should act and how a marriage should be.
Since I have given up some of these already since i started this love dare, like control & the influence of some of what my family has given, i feel so much more positive and that I am doing what God wants and not what they want me to.
The unrealistic expectations i had on him were ridiculous, i wanted a superman when my husband was just a man.
Oneness is between you and your husband... Outside influence can always make it go wrong.