Thank u guys so much!!! after a lot of thought and prayer last night, I decided what I would do for day 2 today! When he left, the only thing he forgot was his bike. It was a struggle, but I managed to strap it on to my little Sentra and drop it off where he is staying. After I left, I sent him a text...

My situation summed up in my first post here http://lovedarestories.com/1/f/221/p/37559/55733.aspx#55733 He moved out while I was at work two days ago. No warning. Never once even mentioned he had problems with me. Never admitted to anything ever being amidst even when asked. Just left with everything...

So today, it was harder to keep negative comments to myself, especially when I got negativity from her, she allows no mercy, not that I deserve any mercy whatsoever, especially with how I drug her through the mud, but today we talked and I told her that once I get a job, which shouldn't be long im...

Day one turned out to be a great day. Kim and I watched our online church that we have not done in a long time. Surprisingly our church is on a series called Relationship Boot camp a study of Ephesians 5. www.centralonline.tv . It talked about how you need to be friends with your partner over anything...

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My wife wants to walk away from our marriage after the first 2 years. We are currently living seperately at her request. I started the Love dare 3 days ago and its nice to have something to keep my mind on rather than let it run aimlessly. Day 1 i felt God actually almost testing me with my patience...

I feel like i have already had to forgive him and forgive myself for all of our past mistakes to have even started this process, to want a better life for us and the children. But its hard when more and more keeps getting added on. How do fight for someone , when they seem to not want/able to forgive...

Today was a little bit easier but I still feel like I haven't made it anywhere. My wife has a brick wall up encased by steel beams that I feel like are never going to be knocked down. I pray about this multiple times daily, asking God to guide me in the right path to get her back and to make me better...

Today is day 2. I realized yesterday after reading the appendix that I started wrong. I was trying to do this WITH my husband. It's not about that. It's not about the two of us. It's about me and God. So today I plan to go get him some breakfast after I leave work this AM, Take it to him...

So trying to find something unexpected was a little difficult. I ended up buying her some of her favorite snacks. I put them on the table and haven't said anything about it. I will let her see them when she does and I'm not waiting for the reaction. It feels good just to do something...just to...

Yesterday was a good day. I started off the day waking her up by rubbing her back, head, and arms. I then asked if I could lay beside her and hold her while I rubbed her back. She said yes and was really enjoying it. I then let her lay in bed while I made some coffee, woke our son for school and put...

Yesterday was Day 2 for me after having to do day 1 twice :) We went to church together, and went down at invitation for prayer. It was a blessing. I had been praying for someone ( a couple) for us to talk to since our mentors had not been returning our calls. We met a very nice couple. After going home...

Still not sure how to use the site, so I am apologizing in advance if I have posted this in the wrong place. I did my nice thing for my husband today. But then He called me at work a few hours later to talk about something in his work and i was crying about our financial situation in my office after...

So, I found this site quite by accident, but I'm glad I did. Today I'm on the "Love is Kind" dare. I've found this to be a very easy thing to do...the keeping the dares. Unfortunately, the reason that it's so easy is that my wife and I are not living together right now. I'm...

Hello everyone, Here I am again, day two completed. It was a tough one. How can you make a nice gesture to someone when a. you don't live together and b. you won't see him for a while. Well, I decided I would sent him a card, thanking him for making it possible for me to take a two week time...

Because my husband and I are separated, day 2 was a day that I had to be creative with...For his birthday last month, our son (21 months) and I gave him concert tickets. As an act of kindness, I made him 2 cds. The first one was the bands new album, and the 2nd one was a compilation of about 20 more...

Day 2 went very good. She called and told me that she had to work late. So after I picked up the children we were going to be driving by here business. So I stopped and got her a cup of her favorite Starbuck's coffee. As we were getting out of the car the children picked a couple of flowers (dandilions...

Day 2 went pretty good. It was my night (parenting plan until Divorce is final) to be with the kids. She was painting in our old bedroom and she said we could hangout in the living room, i could cook for the kids, and get them ready to go to bed. So i did those things no problem, but as my act of kindness...

Day 2 is done. She was only stopping by the house after work so she could get ready for her Stamp Club meeting that will be at the house Wednesday and I was only able to speak with her for about 40 min before she left. Her club meeting requires a lot of set up and I had all of that set up for her and...