Day 1 was easy for my. I kept at it for 3 days .
Day 2 however is a different story, how do I show act of kindness is my husband asked me just last knight that he wants so space and think that it would be better if he moves out? He does not do the dare with me, but he knows that I am doing it as I asked him to partisipate as well. He did not want to.
It is good that he is not doing the dares. If both of you do them, it would create expectation and the point would be missed.
This is a journey between you and Christ, not you and your husband. Your husband is a tool in this journey.
Don't bring up the dares to him anymore. And I assume you have not seen fireproof. So get the movie and watch it alone, with no interruptions.
Read the appendix, especially the section on leading the heart... It will give you much insight into your past and the present of what your husband is doing.
Trust Christ, do the dares as they are intended without manipulation to what you think. No matter what you think the response will be... This is a journey of allowing Christ to take over.