this was supposed to say :
how can i do this dare when he doesn't live with me? how do i show him a different kindness.
You can do it, you just have to find creative ways in doing so. You may not be able to do exactly what the dare is asking, but do the BEST you can. What I was advised from the beginning, is that this is a journey between you and Christ not you and your spouse. Focus on that. You will be AMAZED how things unfold in your own heart. I am so in awe, as I have been on this journey, with God's daily work and blessings. I look forward to seeing you grow and walking this journey with you.
Thank you so much. I have been trying to find my way to God and i have been struggling so much. And now with this I feel like i need His grace more than ever. I know this is going to be hard and i'm not asking for a miracle. I guess i'm asking for a better version of myself. I wound up sending him flowers. I don't know if he received them. He decided to move out of his grandmothers and in with a friend. He hasn't said anything but the point was not to be praised. It was something out of my heart. We shall see what happens.
To add to what Jenn said. The success of the dares is not the response. It is trusting Christ to do them without your manipulation to them and no matter what doing them period.
And what I mean by manipulation is that you change the dare from its intended point because you believe it will be rejected or receive a negative response. remember trust Christ to know what is best, not yourself.
so i wound up switching dares. I didn yesterday's dare today and today's yesterday. he found it sweet. but then later on he said he didn't know if he still was in love with me.
is anyone else having issues posting journal entries? i have tried several times but when i hit save it clears and says to put content.
First. Dont switch dares. In fact never look ahead. Take one day at a time, as they are intended. Christ will open the doors for you. Remember you are doing it Gods way not yours.
As for the journals. The most common problem is that it will log out on you. It is weird. It is always best for you to write your journal entry in word or something then cut and paste it in.
well i didn't look ahead. i just did the kind one after the the buy something cause it fit. not intentional just accidental. So just copy and past. I'm going to try . hope it works.
let me know if it does.