Hello, I have started "The Love Dare" yesterday after watching the movie Fireproof. Day 1 was a challenge for me in showing patience towards her. I sent her a bouquet of flowers and a card expressing my apology towards the actions that I have caused her to not want to be with me. I realize that this journey is based upon married couples, but I strongly feel that this can, and should be used for everyone in life. I have strong feelings for this person and don't want to lose her for the actions that I did to make her want some time to herself. I am trying to do this challenge/dare on day 2 but I don't know what I can do for the act of kindness to someone that at present time doesn't want to speak to me or see me. I plan to continue the challenge to show this person that I have changed and that I lost my way while we were together.
This is not a challenge. This is a journey. One between you and Christ, not you and this person.
There are some dares that may not be possible, and for those you will have other opportunities to complete them. Be patient, and seek out Christs timing not yours.