Let me just begin by saying my partner and I are not married. We have a very bad past however I became pregnant and we decided to form a family. I have asked God for forgiveness for how things came about to be in my relationship but I know that he forms families for a reason. I truly believe he does not wish for two people that love each other and have a baby to separate and break a family. We have hurt each other and I broke up with him 2 months ago but changed my decision immediatly and he will not forgive me and give us a second chance. After this, he slept with somebody else making things worse. We went out of town and since I work until 11pm monday-wed I decided to just do the questions while we were in the car for 2 hours. The personal questions went good and I learned things about him. However, when we got to the marital questions and I asked him about the 3 things he liked about me they were all about qualities regarding me being a mother. I asked him to tell me things he liked when it came to us and he said that there was no longer an us. He has moved back to the house after moving out but there are nights he does not come home because he goes out drinking (which he did not used to do before) and he kind of made it clear that he does not think of us as together anymore. I gave him the book last night in the hopes that he will find the peace and make the choice to love. However, I feel like he is disrespecting me and that he has made up his mind about us being done and that he is only keeping me around so that he keeps on seeing my daughter (if I move out I will move 2 hours away from where we live). I have been praying and im struggling to chose between staying for 21 more days and finishing the dare or moving out and keep on praying and leaving my relationship in God's hands.
Your last statement confuses me. Doing the dare now, are you not on a journey and leaving your relationship in Gods hands now?
Now, this is the first post I have seen from you. And by the looks of your statements in this post it seems that you are still trying to control and/or manipulate the situation. Which means you have left nothing in Gods hands. That is not trusting Christ.
You gave him the book in hopes that he will find peace and make the choice to love. The book is not going to help him do that. The only thing that will do that is your testimony of your journey. And your journey should not have any struggles of leaving. If your journey is true, and trusting in Christ then there should be no question that you are willing to stick it out. It seems that your struggle is a threat of some sort. If things are good between you and him, it seems then you wont move, but if not you are moving. So, you are not trusting Christ because you are planning additional options.... Maybe you should post more often. You are 20+days into this and we only have this post to base our suggestions on.