Day 11

Forum Post: Re: Advice

Sean — Fri, 29 Mar 2013 22:35:00 GMT

Praising Him through each moment brings peace to your own thoughts as well.

Forum Post: Re: Day 11 and feeling great

Sean — Sun, 09 Dec 2012 12:57:00 GMT

Praising Him always is where we are blessed always

Forum Post: Re: Day 11

Sean — Mon, 01 Oct 2012 10:25:00 GMT

Don't think it went unnoticed. She is in a situation where she turns a blind eye and intentionally will not appreciate things. But trust me it is noticed.

As for your counselor. Let me tell you this. God is never late, period. And the switch your counselor is talking about is a switch that only the world can live by. If anyone's marriage was switched off it was mine. But yet, for the last few years since my journey has started, God has blessed me with a happiness in my marriage and my life that has been better everyday than our wedding day.

Forum Post: Re: Day 51 - Love Cherishes

Sean — Mon, 13 Aug 2012 23:52:00 GMT

When you seek Christ in guiding your thoughts you can always find the blessings through it. The negativity left quickly, and now you can compare the old you with the new... Now take a moment and see how selfish the past was for the little things. Praise God

Forum Post: Re: missed it ....again

Sean — Tue, 17 Jul 2012 10:37:00 GMT

The whole point of this journey is you and Christ. Your spouse is a tool that is used to help you understand the relationship with Christ... Remember Christ is molding you in this journey, seek out His will for you and everything else will fall into place.

Forum Post: Re: Resolute

Sean — Sun, 15 Jul 2012 11:44:00 GMT

It is critical that you focus on your journey... Allow Christ to mold you more in His image each day through the dares... Do not remind her anymore you are doing the dares. Just go about your way with Christ. In her mind it is all a con, and even if you have change it will only be until she comes back. This is why it is so important to focus on this journey with Christ, trust Him in doing the dares as they are intended. His way, not manipulated by you. She sees things but will never admit to it. But you must be a testimony before she can believe any of it.

Come back daily and discuss you dares each day, it is a big help... Also in the journal section, there are more comments daily.

Forum Post: Re: Day 11 - Love Cherishes

Sean — Sat, 14 Jul 2012 11:43:00 GMT

Build your relationship with Him daily through understand these dares...

Forum Post: Re: Day 11 Not sure how to do

Sean — Wed, 11 Jul 2012 10:35:00 GMT

You depend pon Christ to complete the dares as if she was still there. Trusting Him. There will be dares that cannot be done, but remember the success of the dares are not her reaction, but your trust in Him doing them as intended without any manipulation from you doing it your way

Forum Post: Re: Day 11

Sean — Tue, 03 Jul 2012 21:02:00 GMT

If you read the appendix about leading your heart, I am sure you can see he is following his.. And when we do that, nothing is certain

Forum Post: Re: Day 11 and getting worse

Sean — Tue, 03 Jul 2012 21:00:00 GMT

My pleasure

Forum Post: Re: I miss him.

Sean — Fri, 20 Apr 2012 10:08:00 GMT

You will find that soon enough. In this journey the more you depend on Christ the more His comfort will be upon you.

Forum Post: Re: Day 51 - Love still Cherishes

Sean — Fri, 06 Apr 2012 10:29:00 GMT

Lindsy, there is so much more that is going on right now. You need to recognize it. Remember in this journey... Being between you and Christ not you and your husband. Your husband is a tool. Christ will expose many things about you, and your relationship with Christ through all this. But you must seek that wisdom. You must DEPEND on Christ in everything during this journey.

That selfishness you are seeing in your husband. Your was bad as well. You are getting to the disgust stage. So now see how you are feeling? Change those things that you have had in the past with Christ.

And remember. As your testimony grows stronger. The more conviction your husband will have. And he will try to deal with it his way. And him reminding you everytime you do something. Again, he needs to deal with things as he is in control... Period.

Forum Post: Re: Day 11 love cherishes

Sean — Fri, 09 Mar 2012 21:28:00 GMT

You are also realizing the selfishness that used to be in you and are dealing with it through Christs love and comfort in your life

That is growth

Forum Post: Re: Day 11 - Love Cherishes

Sean — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 10:51:00 GMT

Jenn,

Is it not amazing how much even the little things cause so much problem with us in our lives. Yet we ignore or set God aside daily and never think twice what we do to Him.

One good practice in this journey. When you feel these moments of disappointment, look at your relationship with Christ and see if you realize the small things we may disappoint Christ in our relationship.

This is where things will start to change in our daily lives. Remember this journey is really between you and Christ!

Forum Post: Day 11: Pray and Praise GOD

HKOakland — Fri, 05 Aug 2011 08:21:00 GMT

Praise GOD for a peaceful day! No arguing. No negativity like usual. I survived the day because I Prayed and Praised GOD all throughout the day. It was such a blessing. I tried to do nice things for him for the sake of doing it because I love him. The day started out beautifully with a good morning kiss and I tried to greet him with when I saw him after work. It does feel good to do these things. Acts of love. I feel like things are changing for the better for me from the inside and it manifests to the outside. I try to keep the other dares in mind that I haven't done successfully and incorporate them if I can. I tried my best to show him i cherished him. I called today just to tell him that I was thinking of him and that I loved him. That felt good. The intentions were from my heart and done with love. I'm feeling like it is possible to love someone unconditionally. All things are possible with GOD!