4-20-10: Today was a good day as well. For the dare today, I cooked my husband dinner and made all of his favorites and had it done before he got home from work. He was very pleased and told me thank you and how good it was. He seems to be lightening up a little bit and going back to the way things were before we started fighting. I know we are not out of the woods yet and I will continue on this journey but I am strarting to see a little bit of hope. I just hope it is real and not an illusion. I will keep on my path and keep praying and working on my relationship with God because in the end I know he is the one who will have to change myself and my husband and do his work in our marriage. Thank you all for your support and prayers.
Crystal, as things get better, we tend to forget or slack in our need for Christ. I am not going to say that is what you will do. What I want to point out is focus on Christ and your Journey. At the moment your dares and your husband are tools.... It is so easy for us to fall back when things are well. So start looking at yourself your past days and how they are now. If you are praying as much and serving the Lord. Then awesome. And if not, start putting the margin in your life to do so. This was my same concern as well when I was doing the dare... And if I did not have someone pointing that out, I am sure it would have happened. And keep posting. It is great to see God working in your life!
Sean, thank you for saying that. I can see how something like that can happen.
Just gotta pray to make sure that doesn't happen!
Yes. And with satan, he will always try to pull you away. This is a life long journey. Not just until your situation is fixed. But margin will always keep the Lord first.