Well, this is not difficult for me at all. I have been doing this since Day 1. I have been making my husband breakfast in the mornings, cleaning up the dishes so that he isn't always doing them by himself,etc. The problem is just trying to think of what to do next for him to continue to show him that I love him through my actions.
I am so thankful that I made that decision to love my husband unconditionally, no matter what the circumstances. Sometimes those circumstances are very difficult to deal with and the worries, insecurities, and fears tend to well up inside me and of course panic and doubts begin to overcome me. I must give those burdens to God and quite taking them back.
Would it help to write down your burdens and burn the paper like you did with the negative aspects of your spouse from day 8?
that sounds like a good idea... I am having the same issue- continuously worrying and insecurities. It's difficult to put those aside when my husband doesn't seem to notice the things I am doing to show my love.
this is a journey in learning how to love unconditionally. Just as the bible verse says to work as though you are working for the Lord, I encourage you to do your dares as a service to Him. Hope this helps and glad to see you on here.
Leslie, so glad to see you back! And you are correct. One of the things about the dares it uses your marriage to teach us how to love Christ and allow him to mold us to be more in his image. This journey is great when you get everything out of it.