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Re: Roller Coaster

Roller Coaster

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  • Yesterday was a pretty good day, we had the grandson, we we're having a lot of fun. She shared some pictures with me and today she actually called me twice. Then she came home and I knew something was up so I asked her and she said " I just want to get this over with ". I am so confused but I guess she is too. God help quickly!! 

  • Welcome.  Think of doing the dares as a journey between you and Christ, not you and your wife.  She will be used as a tool to mold you.  Do a dare a day, no more, no less.  Do not change how the dare should be done to make it easier. Have no expectations of her when you do the dares.  Do not read ahead in the book, except for the appendix especially about leading the heart.

    God is never late.

    things often get worse before it gets better, but this will serve purpose.

    She may have said she just wants to get it over with because after having a good time and calling you twice she feels she has to put her wall back up.  to justify her behavior.   She will be up and down like a roller coaster.  But you need to  be consistent in what the dares are teaching.  she needs to see that consistentency in your testimony.

    Do not try to fix the marriage, leave the control in God's perfectly good hands.

    YOu may want to try posting under the community tab, under that tab is a link to the Love Dare journal section.  Most people post there and more will read and respond to you there.  If you need help getting to that section, let me know here and I will check back.  Or, I will keep checking on this part of the site too.

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