Collaborate without boundaries

Day 1

Day 1

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  • I decided to do this because I care about our marriage. For a very long time I have felt like my husband does not love me. He is very emotional abusive and calls me names like worthless,stupid and a bad mother. 

    Then he wants me to be intimate with him . He is a good man deep down. But I need us to get back to were he liked me and loved me. I hope that he will do this to but I am not thinking he will.

    I have she'd so many tears iver trying to please him and only getting yelled at. I need to trust in God. 

  • Welcome.  This will be a journey between you and Christ, not you and your husband.  He will be used as a tool to mold you.  Do a dare a day, no more, no less.  Do the dares as they are intended to be done without changing them to make them easier.  Do not read ahead in the book, other than the appendix, especially about leading the heart.

    Do not have expectations of him when doing the dares.  

    Do not for now ask him to do the dares.  if you do he is not ready to and even if he did he would not put the effort in like you and you would be disappointed.  Right now it really is about a journey between you and Christ .  

    He will see changes in you, but may not respond for a while and may get worse before better, if so, it will serve purpose.  

    Try posting under The Community tab, click on it then there will be a Love Dare Journal section.  That section gets more responses than this section.  if you have problems findin that section, come back here.

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