First Day first super challenge!
I have difficulty in saying something all the time if it is to my spouse. Usually, to others, I have difficulty just saying anything. Why is that.... The keyword today is to choose.To choose to be slow to response. I think this is my greatest weakness. choosing to have a long fuse instead of a quick explosion is hard.
Your shortcomings in expressing love will be exposed in the dares.
Keep in mind when doing the dares it will be a journey between you and Christ, not you and your spouse. Your spouse will be used as a tool to mold you to love the way we should.
Do a dare a day, no more, no less. Do the dares as intended without manipulating them. Do not read ahead except the appendix, especially the section on leading the heart.
Do not have any expectations of what your spouses reactions will be when doing the dares.
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If you could post under the community lin, and the love dare journal tab under the community link it would be helpful. This section does not get read as often.