I am in my first relationship ever, I am twenty two and have been dating, with all do respect to everyone but the most beautiful girl the world could ever know. She is perfect, in everyway and I decided to break-up with her. Something happened with us and another group of people which attracted a lot of negativity to our relationship and we were already goign through some hard times. I decided to take the route of breaking up with her because I was scared that things were going to get worse. However I realized I had made a terrible mistake. The very night I broke up with her I gave her a call and have been tryignt og et back with her ever since. It has now been a week that I been in the chase, but it feels like seven years. I begin today with day one and honestly patience is what I need. She told em she needed time but I just dont understand how she could not be sure to be with me if she said I was the man of her life. The man she dreamed about. I miss her so much, God help me I want to trust you now !
Are you willing to give up your way of doing things? I mean you see where it gets you. This dare is a journey, and one that is very important. It is a journey with Christ, and will allow Christ to mold you more in His image. And remember Christ never did things His way, He did the will of the Father.
Read the appendix. There is a section about leading the heart.
I was in the same place in a way and it comes down to what you are willing to do(not for you but for Him).. Do not be afraid for the Lord is with you. Cut the unhealthy ties so you can live the life that the Lord intended for you. It is hard! But in the end it is so worth it! For me i broke the relationship and then i wanted it back.. I never gave time for the Lord to work in his/her life. Give him/her time, and in the mean time work on yourself and The Lord.
We always want things now... WIthout a walk with Christ, patience is not easy.