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Final Hope

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  • I watched fireproof numerous times, making it one of my favorite movies. I have been in a relationship for a year now and although my wants and goals have not changed, my actions towards my partner have changed a lot. She says, " I make her feel as though she can't free express her feelings because I take everything personally" and when we agrue I get so concerned with explaining my side or point, I belittle her own. There are other factors that play a role in problems we face, however nothing I've done seems to help.

     

    My Partner has basically given up on arguing and don't even want see me, however we have not called it quits. I not sure if it is to late to do the love dare or if she will be receptive to it. I have started Day 1 and she has yet to speak to me today. This is my Last Hope, I'm relying on God to fix me and make me greater than the man I thought I was.

  • Welcome.  this will be a journey between you and Christ, not you and her. She will be used as a tool to mold you. Do a dare a day, no more, no less. Do not read ahead in thebook other than the appendix, especially about leading the heart.  There is one dare that you do not do.  It remains for married couples only.  have no expectations of her when you do the dares.  It may get worse before it gets better.  If it happens, it will serve purpose.  

    All the changes you see you need to make and many more will come about if you do the dares as they are intended to be done.  So, do not change the dares to make them easier.

    Try journaling in The Love Dare Journal section, click on the Community tab to find it.  If you have trouble finding out how to do so come back here and I will see if I can help further.  You will get more responses in the other section of this site.

  • Ok thank you

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