Hello, I'm very new to this. I have been with my husband for 9 years and married for a little over 7. I made a terrible mistake and was texting inappropriate things yo another man and NY husband found out. I hurt him and our 6 kids in a way I don't thing he can forgive me. I only pray and hope that he will allow me the chance to prove to him that I will never ever hurt him agai . I messed this up I don't want to lose my husband. Any advice would be helpful please.
welcome. Try next time posting under the love dare journal section, under the community link. It will help out greatly.
Do you have the book? If so, read the appendix especially about leading the heart. If not get it asap.
Do a dare a day, no more, no less. This will help give him the space he feels he needs.
Do not read ahead in the dares. Do not manipulate the dares to make them easier for you to do. Have no expectations of him reacting to you doing the dares.
In fact, it may get worse before it gets better but this will serve a purpose which you will understand at a later point.
This will be a journey between you and Christ, not you and him, he will be used as a tool to mold you.
Post often for accountability.