Today I decided to start the love dare again. It has been over a year since I last did it. My marriage has been mediocre since then. Some up times, some down times. But this past weekend put it in a really bad place. It's been heading that way but I think I let it get too far. I kind of have not been connecting with my wife on many level. emotionally, physically, etc. But I do want to save this marriage. So I think as long as I keep my head on straight and my hopes high there still might be a chance. Wish me luck!
There is no wishing luck.... This is a journey... Not a self-help.
And since your last time doing the dare it seems you did not get much out of it. So take a different look at it this time around.
First, you cannot control what happens... So saying you let it get too far is part of the problem.
The dare is a journey. One between you and Christ. Not you and your wife. Your wife is a tool that Christ will use in this journey. I do not know if you really took the time. But read the appendix (all of it) before you really get going.
Allow Christ to mold you in each of these dares. Be willing to listen to what is being taught in each of these dares. And not only look at your marriage realtionship with them, but your relationship with Christ.